Tell or dont tell???????????????

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Tell or dont tell???????????????

Postby Farmer_dave » Sat Jul 03, 2004 10:04 pm

Recently I came across some information, My best mates misses was cheating on him, I had to decide do i tell him?? I knew either way it wasnt gonna be pretty but I made my desicion and I stand by it though it was hard and still is.
What would you guys/girls do??
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Postby Girvs » Sun Jul 04, 2004 12:55 am

Hell yeah man, you've got to look out for your mates!
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Postby Adamal » Sun Jul 04, 2004 1:32 am

Confront her first I'd say. Tell her that she should be the one to tell him.... Cheating bitch :evil: :x
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Postby zEpHyRiNe » Sun Jul 04, 2004 12:34 pm

Adamal wrote:Confront her first I'd say.

*points*
I'm with him on this one.
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Postby flygt4 » Sun Jul 04, 2004 12:52 pm

see if u can blackmail her.....take her for all u can....... either $ or sex or make her do ur washing. :lol:
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Postby geishaboy » Sun Jul 04, 2004 8:43 pm

Adamal wrote:
Confront her first I'd say.

*points*
I'm with him on this one.


Yup, I agree with both of you.
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Re: Tell or dont tell???????????????

Postby skoty » Sun Jul 04, 2004 10:34 pm

Farmer_dave wrote:My best mates misses was cheating on him,


Firstly,

F**king bitch ass ho :x , however in that situation Id have a talk with her and tell her to sort her sh*t out, take things slowly, dont suddenly tell him the news, but dont let it go on for to much longer either.

Basically Ive been there and know how it feels :x :evil: :roll:
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Postby Banga69 » Mon Jul 05, 2004 11:52 am

yup i would of told. . .
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Postby Ebola_One » Tue Jul 06, 2004 3:17 pm

I'd make sure the facts were right, then confront her & tell her she has a week to tell him.
Then I'd tell him.
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Postby Blkwinter » Tue Jul 06, 2004 3:54 pm

Dude please tell him. I put myself in that dudes position. Now if my gf was cheating on me and i didnt know i would definatly want to know.. she sounds like a slag..
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Postby ROXY » Tue Jul 13, 2004 6:22 pm

You tell them.
Your loyalty should lie with your friend not with your friends partner.
9 times out of 10 they'll thank you for it. It may hurt like hell but they're seriously better off knowing.
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Postby 7apples » Tue Jul 13, 2004 11:10 pm

hell yeah mates first. its good to know that ya mates look after you.
my mate told me that this sill tart i was with was cheating on me.
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Postby AXNGRL » Wed Jul 21, 2004 11:53 am

definitely tell him. My best mate told me my boyfriend at the time was cheating on me. It was the best thing she could have done for me cause now I've got a lovely boyfriend instead :D
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Postby Inane » Wed Jul 21, 2004 12:23 pm

definately tell him,

if you dont, how is he going to feel if he finds out you knew about it and didnt tell him?
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Postby Silent Knight » Wed Jul 21, 2004 3:09 pm

tell him or you just might be risking your friendship over something really foolish..... :? :? :?

i've been in this situation before and it's better to tell him.
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Postby pplmvr » Sun Aug 08, 2004 2:22 am

Of course you do, it rather now and later, so you can take me active decision ie dump her first, instead be dumped etc..

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Postby 89fxgt » Sun Aug 08, 2004 12:21 pm

mates b4 dates ppl
why do i have a consceince all it does is $&#$% with me
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Postby jr007 » Tue Aug 10, 2004 9:44 am

helllllll yeah

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Postby cheese » Tue Aug 10, 2004 11:44 pm

$&#$% her day up and give her a black eye... actually do that even if she isnt cheating, just in case. :lol:
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Re: Tell or dont tell???????????????

Postby -Dan-Knee- » Wed Aug 11, 2004 9:05 pm

Farmer_dave wrote:Recently I came across some information, MY BEST MATES misses was cheating on him


Bro The Bold Bit Shud Say It All......
Wud U Want Him To Do The Same If It Ever Happened To U......

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