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I'm having trouble (being a pussy) meeting new chicks and getting random hook ups... (URGENT)

(Fellow guyz, you better pay attension to this ya might learn something)

hehee i know this is going to be funny.

personally i wouldnt be impressed by any guy that tried to pick me up in a bar, but apparently, thats just me but if i diiidd... id say your best bet is a compliment or a cheesy pick up line as long as its not sleazy, depending on whether you're feeling funny that night, but dont make physical contact at all, unless its a light touch of the shoulder or after a couple of drinks you can attempt to brush a piece of hair off her face, ive heard thats quite erotic

and for gods sake if a girl turns away or denies you dont keep trying, its just embarrasing

so i go for either humour or niceness, anything thats natural and not forced out, im not a guy but i wouldnt buy any girl a drink unless she showed that at least she wasnt gonna cringe whenever i opened my mouth, and id be expecting at least 1/2 an hour of nice conversation just something to show that maybe she kinda liked me.

good luck

And just for some more cents, I find it really irritating when guys say, "Hows ur night" or "What are you up to?" I thought the 2nd one was obvious and the first always leads to arkward (sp?) conversation.

but then again, if shes remotley interested in you, i spose she'll help along with the conversation. if shes giving one word answers, back teh truck up and get out

alright enough of my rant

I think if your asking advice of people on a web based forum then your already in over your head...

good point, i mean, i havent been out of my house in months

Roush wrote:personally i wouldnt be impressed by any guy that tried to pick me up in a bar, but apparently, thats just me but if i diiidd... id say your best bet is a compliment or a cheesy pick up line as long as its not sleazy, depending on whether you're feeling funny that night, but dont make physical contact at all, unless its a light touch of the shoulder or after a couple of drinks you can attempt to brush a piece of hair off her face, ive heard thats quite erotic

and for gods sake if a girl turns away or denies you dont keep trying, its just embarrasing

so i go for either humour or niceness, anything thats natural and not forced out, im not a guy but i wouldnt buy any girl a drink unless she showed that at least she wasnt gonna cringe whenever i opened my mouth, and id be expecting at least 1/2 an hour of nice conversation just something to show that maybe she kinda liked me.

good luck

Amen to that all.......

my 2c - be yourself, nobody likes a faker, plus its gonna be easier for you to figure out if they're interested or not

and memba the number one rule.........KISS!!!

Keep It Simple, Stupid!

I dig the can i buy u a drink.....oh Hold da phone....Disco asked me that :O haha anyway i like it coz its suttle and not sleazy...sure u could be trying to get the chick drunk to like u but hey if shes willing to take the drink then she must have some kind of interest in u. I accept a few b4 and ive denied a few its all a matter of trial and error however i do agree with Carly that at all costs DO NOT and i mean DO NOT attempt to recover from a nasty slap down or chopchopchop. It only makes u look desperate and stupid, and hey if u wanna look stupid either drink lots or enjoy the "natural" things in life......like cory.....UR FONES RINGING CORRRR!!!!!

I think if your asking advice of people on a web based forum then your already in over your head..

Hey common its not like im having trouble with women. It was just set to be kinda a guide for guyz in from this site in general. Lil bit in inocent fun.
I just thorught it would be intresting to see what the girls think would be best in this type of situation. Besides its my first POLL and im just trying to get ppl to no me really.. Gimmie a break . lol



"and memba the number one rule.........KISS!!! "


LOL Whats that sapose to mean? Kiss up to them (suckup)? or kiss them if everything goes ok?


Maybe chattin up chicks at the jim would be a better idea? LOL

Fatal-Exception wrote:"and memba the number one rule.........KISS!!! "

LOL Whats that sapose to mean? Kiss up to them (suckup)? or kiss them if everything goes ok?

Ok.......

Lesson number 1: ALWAYS read the fine print!!!

I wrote:my 2c - be yourself, nobody likes a faker, plus its gonna be easier for you to figure out if they're interested or not

and memba the number one rule.........KISS!!!

Keep It Simple, Stupid

...................^^Fine print!!!

and when enlarged reads....
Keep It Simple, Stupid

Hey Fatal you want a chillen wench man ?. Go down to melling on a Thursday night soon. Some of them real chillen down there you seez what mean when ou getz there

Im with everyone else on this one.
I think the best way would be a cheesy pick up line, get her laffing, break the ice blah blah, have a wee bit of small talk, ask to dance... well, it would work for me anyways...

Do a little flurting eye contact and if a girl returns it don't be a pussy go up and introduce your self but if she doesnt don't pursist I hate trying to brush slezzy guys off its really hard

I agree with that i hate sleazy guys who dont understand the word NO and they start to freak me out when they wont give up and it actually gets a bit scary! i just like the come up and say hi one, simple.

1. No thanks I can buy my own drink
2. Keep that f*cking thing away from me or you'll lose it
3. Dont try that sh*t with me
4. Im doing fine and dandy thank you
5. Yes i know i look good - i dont need you to tell me that
6. Is there sumfing on my face? Your'e freaking me out!
7. HI! What friend? I dont see your friend. MMmmm you can come home with me!

See luv - Ya just cant win

Oh kay , seems like the small talk , buying drink , introduction method is kinda popular amoung the ladies.

However...Ive seen my man-whore buddies in action and they dont need to buy drinks , introduce themselves , or talk at all....and they still get random hookups , $&#$% buddies etc
They dont act too sleezy , they dont persist if they get the idea, they jst try the next chick. And it works!
Basically their techinique is try to dance with as many chix as possible to see if any are keen on them , usually fails about 7or8 times outa 10 ...but its worth it...sometimes my mates can get 2 or 3 chix a nite. I of course , am not a man-whore therefore do not partake in such activities....all tho my mates are keen to get me into it.

Ladies , what are youre thoughts on this?

hey i thought id put my 2cents in, i think your best bet is to be natual just go with the flow, ask questions bout her is a good idea & if she only gives u 1 word answers then thats another way of saying she dont like ya,
also dont offer a drink rite a way get her talking 1st & dont worry about having to say the rite thing if you make her laugh thats a good thing

Andy from the block wrote:Oh kay , seems like the small talk , buying drink , introduction method is kinda popular amoung the ladies.

However...Ive seen my man-whore buddies in action and they dont need to buy drinks , introduce themselves , or talk at all....and they still get random hookups , f*** buddies etc
They dont act too sleezy , they dont persist if they get the idea, they jst try the next chick. And it works!
Basically their techinique is try to dance with as many chix as possible to see if any are keen on them , usually fails about 7or8 times outa 10 ...but its worth it...sometimes my mates can get 2 or 3 chix a nite. I of course , am not a man-whore therefore do not partake in such activities....all tho my mates are keen to get me into it.

Ladies , what are youre thoughts on this?

well i think this may work on some chicks like sults but not me, im not in to the 1 nite stands, + if a guy comes up 2 you & hits on you & u turn him down & he just moves on to the next chick its not a good sign it just shows he doesnt like u he just wanted a quicky

Get absolutely smashed. Wake up the next morning, let ur mate tell you you ended up dancing with, and kissing a chick on the dance floor, before ditching em to go and drink pi$$ with ur mates at another pub....dunno how it always seems to happen to me...(and I never remember it happening cause I'm always too trashed), then ur mate points her out the next night you and ur mate see her out and ur like wtf? Why the hell did I hook up with a hottie like that and leave her...Yes I must be screwed in the head...