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Is He Homosexual?

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Not a chance!
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He's just metro leave him alone!
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Serious Sexuality Opinions.

Postby SIKTOY » Wed Aug 24, 2005 6:09 pm

Firstly this is serious not a joke!!!

Me and some of our mates are slightly worried that our mate is gay but doesnt realise it yet.

Nothing will come from this, my mates and I just want to know the opinions of a larger number of people.

To describe him:

Background:
He's part asian, lived in Aus for 10 years and the rest of his life here.
Just turned 18.
Studying engineering.

Reasons for doubting his sexuality:

1. He works at various smith and cauhgies (spelling?) stores selling perfume.
2. He walks like hes wearing heels, even when hes got boots on.
3. He touches us, (not in private places) but quite often, we all muck round but him much more than others. In particular he always touches one of our mates who is very metro.
4. He still has his V plates and to the best of my knowledge has never had a serious girlfriend or gone further than a pash.
5. He wears tightish jeans and is obsessed with how his hair looks.
6. Last time we went out we got him dancing with a damn fine looking "female" of our age and she straight out said she was horny and was rubbing herself all over him for 2+ hours AND HE MADE NO MOVES!!!
7. He tries way too hard to sound like he's horny.
8. He had no trouble sleeping in a double bed (in seperate sleeping bags granted) with a guy he barely knew.

In his defence:
1. Hes never checked out a male (to my knowledge)
2. He adamantly denies being gay.
3. He doesnt talk about guys in that way.
Thats about it. :lol:

What do you guys & girls think?
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Postby CaM » Wed Aug 24, 2005 6:17 pm

I didn't vote, too hard to tell etc, he sells perfume yes, but that'd be one of the best ways of getting your mac on I reckon, lol. Then again, he hasnt so hmmm...
and not making moves on some chick at a pub? that's not necessarily 'shitpirate' material either, hell, I had almost the same thing happen to me on the weekend and I didn't hit that, clearly a pubslut etc, not keen :lol: that time anyways....
touching your mates.. the c**t might be just a physical sort of person, even if it's homoerotic doesnt mean he's gay, me and my mates are the most overly homoerotic people you would ever meet, tis all for comical value etc... good to get a reaction
sounds more like he's just a bit vain, feminine and insecure?

'metro' is way to over-used, to me: METROSEXUAL = huge blubbering vagina

dude I know's best mate was exactly the same, apart from the job, he had a manly one etc... they found out he was a shitpirate when they went to a strip club in aussie or something, and he disappeared. They later found him on the next floor up, where the dudes were getting their cocks out... funny shit
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Postby aliluya » Wed Aug 24, 2005 7:10 pm

Shit man .. thats not enough information to determine his sexuality ...

I certainly wouldn't go for a chic thats so straight forward like that ... Plus you said he's a virgin .. that means he could be a shy person against the opposite sex, i know that i used to be .... Or he could have no idea on how to handle the situation ....

Why don't you just let him sort out his own sexualities ..
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Re: Serious Sexuality Opinions.

Postby V8MOFO » Wed Aug 24, 2005 7:10 pm

SIKTOY wrote:Firstly this is serious not a joke!!!

Me and some of our mates are slightly worried that our mate is [person of homosexual orientation] but doesnt realise it yet.

Nothing will come from this, my mates and I just want to know the opinions of a larger number of people.

To describe him:

Background:
He's part asian, lived in Aus for 10 years and the rest of his life here.
Just turned 18.
Studying engineering.

Reasons for doubting his sexuality:

1. He works at various smith and cauhgies (spelling?) stores selling perfume.
2. He walks like hes wearing heels, even when hes got boots on.
3. He touches us, (not in private places) but quite often, we all muck round but him much more than others. In particular he always touches one of our mates who is very metro.
4. He still has his V plates and to the best of my knowledge has never had a serious girlfriend or gone further than a pash.
5. He wears tightish jeans and is obsessed with how his hair looks.
6. Last time we went out we got him dancing with a damn fine looking "female" of our age and she straight out said she was horny and was rubbing herself all over him for 2+ hours AND HE MADE NO MOVES!!!
7. He tries way too hard to sound like he's horny.
8. He had no trouble sleeping in a double bed (in seperate sleeping bags granted) with a guy he barely knew.

In his defence:
1. Hes never checked out a male (to my knowledge)
2. He adamantly denies being [person of homosexual orientation].
3. He doesnt talk about guys in that way.
Thats about it. :lol:

What do you guys & girls think?


you just described 90% of all asians in New Zealand...
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Postby aliluya » Wed Aug 24, 2005 7:13 pm

Haha .. thats so very true .. but i think the percentage is a bit high ... i would actually put it around 60-70% .. and i would say young asians ...
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Postby Steelo » Wed Aug 24, 2005 7:26 pm

I'd say he is a bit camp, but I dunno if he is gay!

I'd watch him closely :lol:
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Postby zEpHyRiNe » Wed Aug 24, 2005 7:29 pm

Maybe he's just a feminine guy.
They exist you know, just like ultra-tomboy girls.
Doesn't make him any more or less gay than the next person.
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Postby Silent Knight » Wed Aug 24, 2005 7:34 pm

zEpHyRiNe wrote: just like ultra-tomboy girls.


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Postby DJ » Wed Aug 24, 2005 7:57 pm

I dunno, its pretty weird, id prob says hes pretty metro.

Hey, I like to look after my hair and how I look (omg lol1!! queeR!) :roll: :|
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Postby SIKTOY » Wed Aug 24, 2005 8:09 pm

Hes not really what you would call an asian, he doesnt even look asian. He has asian blood in him but his folks werent born in asia and he was rasied in Aus and NZ.

Its not so much the metro things like looks and similar stuff.

Its the touchy feely VERY NEARLY beyond joking.
& the try hard nature, he tries too hard to sound like he wants chicks, like hes trying to convince himself.

Personally I dont think he is gay, and may not turn out gay but if he did I wouldnt be too suprised and I definately wouldnt be shocked.
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Re: Serious Sexuality Opinions.

Postby Adamal » Wed Aug 24, 2005 8:20 pm

SIKTOY wrote:3. He touches us, (not in private places) but quite often, we all muck round but him much more than others. In particular he always touches one of our mates who is very metro.


Mate, you should come along to one of the 'Don't meet at the hills' Wednesday meets :D

But I agree, not really enough information to judge.

I'd say: go searching through his computer for images and movies and see what you find.
Of course, if he IS gay, then don't befriend him for it. Sexuallity doesn't change friendship or anything like that.

But be worried if you find animal shit on his computer 8O
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Postby SIKTOY » Wed Aug 24, 2005 8:27 pm

Good idea about searchin for gay pics. man thatd be a hoot if we found some.

But yea I know a few gay guys, It doesnt affect my relationship with them unless they try to get into a relationship with me!!!

I dont think he is gay, just maybe deep down he wants to be but doesnt realise it.

Intersting to get peoples opinions on the matter.
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Postby RS13 » Thu Aug 25, 2005 12:35 am

I think its' not that he's a fag, but more maybe that he's unsure of his sexuality, and his "touching" may be a sign of latent homosexual tendencies. That, and I've noticed that asian guys always seem to touch each other a lot.. hugging and shit. I mean, I haven't hugged a guy in about 15 years, its' just that its' normal to them, acceptable in their home country, but being red-blooded NZers, we still have a anti-gay mentality kicking around, most of which bases on homophobia.. it seems to be a group mentality.

My advice? Leave the man alone. So what if he is gay? You've obviously been his mate for a while, would that change if you realised that you were no longer the buddy, but the eye-candy? Just don't stereotype. The last thing some who is undergoing this sexuality-searching part of their life needs, is persecution.. to the point, where you often hear that it often leads to suicide.

And for the record, no, I'm not a gay. :wink:
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Postby DeeCee » Thu Aug 25, 2005 12:53 am

hmm.. i'm with the others - too hard to tell.. maybe the chick was being too forward and he's shy, selling fragrances may just be an act to get his mack on, i'm obssessed with hair and shoes sometimes..

let him be.. if he walks down the other street i'm sure that he'll let you know

to me it just sounds like he's ultra shy - most asians aren't the most out going or openly expressive people in the world.. let him come out of his shell at his own pace.. :)
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Postby CozmoNz » Thu Aug 25, 2005 1:07 am

I wouldnt say hes ghey.

Id say hes just azn ^_^.
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Postby Psycho_Dad » Thu Aug 25, 2005 1:26 am

ok no ones said it, yet, you have held your toungues for too long

GH3Y!

put a skirt on him and throw him in the hero perade
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Re: Serious Sexuality Opinions.

Postby cheese » Thu Aug 25, 2005 8:40 am

SIKTOY wrote:Firstly this is serious not a joke!!!

Me and some of our mates are slightly worried


thats as far as i read before thinking, grow the $&#$% up. what are you "worried" about?
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Postby SIKTOY » Thu Aug 25, 2005 8:49 am

Note the slightly worried!!!

Besides, not worried as in "oh my god hes ghey get away from me" hes a mate and that wont change.
More worried in the sense of, he may come to grief if he gets really confused due to sexuality issues at a really bad moment.

For everyone: This poll isnt to determine if we should accuse him of being a ghey then ignore him, its meerly to get others opinions on situations like these. To try and establish if this is reasonably normal behaviour or if we will need to help and support him through a transition later in life.

I value everyones opinions but if you think we are being childish, giggling little kids talking about gheys, you are far from wrong. I am comfortable with gheys, and my sexuality. I am merely interested in others opinions.
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Postby pervert » Thu Aug 25, 2005 8:51 am

Psycho_Dad wrote:ok no ones said it, yet, you have held your toungues for too long

GH3Y!

put a skirt on him and throw him in the hero perade


:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Finally!!!

We had a gay guy at my work once, luckily he didn't last long... :lol:
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Postby Psycho_Dad » Thu Aug 25, 2005 8:57 am

pervert you should have said it, it would have been the angry(pointing) monkeys finest moment. all class :lol: :lol: :lol:

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