Advice about someone who owes me money ?
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Advice about someone who owes me money ?
Alright lads, there is a fella who owes me money for some parts which were never supplied. I paid and waited and waited and nothing ever happened so told him i wanted my money back. He agreed and has been fobbing me off with excuses.
Whats the best way to get the money off them, its been a while and ive given the benefit of the doubt so far but im getting desperate for it.
Cops, disputes tribunal ?
We dont live in the same town so its a bastard that way.
I have plenty of proof that he owes me the money so no worries there.
What do ya reckon guys ?
Whats the best way to get the money off them, its been a while and ive given the benefit of the doubt so far but im getting desperate for it.
Cops, disputes tribunal ?
We dont live in the same town so its a bastard that way.
I have plenty of proof that he owes me the money so no worries there.
What do ya reckon guys ?
TBH, I doubt very much if the Police would be either interested or would get involved.
As above, write to him and send the letter recorded delivery and give a definate date when you want the money to be returned by. If nothing happens, go to the CAB who will best advise you what to do next.
Gary
As above, write to him and send the letter recorded delivery and give a definate date when you want the money to be returned by. If nothing happens, go to the CAB who will best advise you what to do next.
Gary
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oky doky, from the perspective of a debt collector (its' what I do for a job)…
Fist question: Have you written to him giving him 10 working days to pay up? You need to do this first. Give a final date and tell him if he fails to pay by the date noted you will then seek legal advice.
If he doesn't pay in the allocated time frame you can either lodge a dispute with the small claims tribunal to basically 'sue' him for the money or you can apply for disputes mediation to come up with an arrangement with him to pay. These orders are legal and binding and must be given action by the debtor.
If these methods don't work, with him still continuing not to pay and he is ordered to pay by the court then you can load his debt with Baycorp. That way he will be affected for several years to come.
It’s not easy to get money from someone if they don’t wanna pay, but if you have all your facts and are owed the money then you have every right to chaise him for it.
If you’re not into that then maybe some big boys to ‘chat’ to time about the outstanding debt might work as mentioned. However this is not something that is recommended as he will more than likely turn around and serves a counter action for harassment. Seen it done before and ruined the debt dispute.
I may be a little sick, but I do love the justice of getting someone to pay their debt. Made someone bankrupt who refused to pay and sold their house to recover the debt awhile back. Very exciting indeed.
Good luck
Fist question: Have you written to him giving him 10 working days to pay up? You need to do this first. Give a final date and tell him if he fails to pay by the date noted you will then seek legal advice.
If he doesn't pay in the allocated time frame you can either lodge a dispute with the small claims tribunal to basically 'sue' him for the money or you can apply for disputes mediation to come up with an arrangement with him to pay. These orders are legal and binding and must be given action by the debtor.
If these methods don't work, with him still continuing not to pay and he is ordered to pay by the court then you can load his debt with Baycorp. That way he will be affected for several years to come.
It’s not easy to get money from someone if they don’t wanna pay, but if you have all your facts and are owed the money then you have every right to chaise him for it.
If you’re not into that then maybe some big boys to ‘chat’ to time about the outstanding debt might work as mentioned. However this is not something that is recommended as he will more than likely turn around and serves a counter action for harassment. Seen it done before and ruined the debt dispute.
I may be a little sick, but I do love the justice of getting someone to pay their debt. Made someone bankrupt who refused to pay and sold their house to recover the debt awhile back. Very exciting indeed.
Good luck
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GT4 20 wrote:TBH, I doubt very much if the Police would be either interested or would get involved.
no they wont; been there done that. they won't get involved because it is a "civil matter". unless a crime was committed and the cops were involved from the start, they won't do much about getting your money back.
also, going through the small claims tribunal can be a very long and costly proccess BUT you can claim all your costs back too (as in make the guy pay all of your costs too).

THANX
Thanks very much for the help chelles, i got a somewhat excessive bill from my mechanics and NEED the money he owes me. Ive sent him a few e-mails telling him i need it, been giving him the benifit of the doubt but will definitely get small claims or baycorp onto him.
We're on different islands so how does small claims work then ?
We're on different islands so how does small claims work then ?
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Vickrin wrote:We're on different islands so how does small claims work then ?
AFAIK they will have to front up to where you lodge the claim.
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Al wrote:AFAIK they will have to front up to where you lodge the claim.
yeah, you can make them come to wherever you are, saves you the inconvenience!

You should know that The Disputes Tribunal does not have jurisdiction to deal with debts that are not disputed – in other words, it cannot be used as a debt collection agency.
So if he doesn't dispute that he owes you money (which in this case would be the smart thing for him to do), there's no point in going to the Disputes Tribunal.
So if he doesn't dispute that he owes you money (which in this case would be the smart thing for him to do), there's no point in going to the Disputes Tribunal.
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fivebob wrote:You should know that The Disputes Tribunal does not have jurisdiction to deal with debts that are not disputed – in other words, it cannot be used as a debt collection agency.
So if he doesn't dispute that he owes you money (which in this case would be the smart thing for him to do), there's no point in going to the Disputes Tribunal.
That is a good point, but you also can't use Baycorp etc if the debt is in dispute. So if you threaten them with Disputes Tibunal and they admit the debt then you can pursue it without going through the courts.
Callum
wde_bdy wrote:fivebob wrote:You should know that The Disputes Tribunal does not have jurisdiction to deal with debts that are not disputed – in other words, it cannot be used as a debt collection agency.
So if he doesn't dispute that he owes you money (which in this case would be the smart thing for him to do), there's no point in going to the Disputes Tribunal.
That is a good point, but you also can't use Baycorp etc if the debt is in dispute. So if you threaten them with Disputes Tibunal and they admit the debt then you can pursue it without going through the courts.
Callum
Yes, but Baycorp is about as useful as tits on a bull in cases like this. IME most people couldn't care less if they're listed with Baycorp, and it's not going to make them pay up. Might piss them off a little bit later on if they want credit, but that's not going to get the money back.
Im in a similar situation myself with a guy who ran into my car while it was parked. He now refuses to admit liabilty so insurance won't cover it as the repair is under the excess and with previous experiance through overdue accounts baycorp doesn't get your money back and at the end of the day if they don't want to pay they won't.
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When I brought my first car, I paid xx $$ for it, on the condition that they had done all the servicing. Well they didnt, and refused to pay back some of the $$ for weeks.
I have a big maori pie loving friend called Jared, Jared got more pie money and I got the rest of thr $$ owing back..
Moral of the story. Pies are wonderful.
I have a big maori pie loving friend called Jared, Jared got more pie money and I got the rest of thr $$ owing back..
Moral of the story. Pies are wonderful.


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