ee904age wrote:Dumb question, but are the shifter cables connected to the right selector arms? ie: not the wrong way round?
This is what I first thought too.
The pic wont help if saying if it's right or not really.
One of the levers out of the box should lock in to place when you give them a solid push in either direction (Which would select 3rd or 4th depending which direction you push it). Get someone to move the gearstick in that direction and make sure it's on to the right one on the gearbox.
The other one on the box should spring back to centre when you push it either direction (When you move the gearstick in the left/right direction when sitting in the car). This is the one that moves when you shift the gearstick over so you can engage 1/2 or 5/R.
If those are around the wrong way then you could be getting the problems you're talking about.