Adamal wrote:But what you're missing is that they become WISE to it. Realise that its not right.
Oh, for sure... But not everyone has the courage to speak up.
You're going to know after a year or two what someone is really like.
Also... say you have 3 kids, a $300,000 mortgage, and are married.
You drop a bowling ball on your head, and realise that your wife is a terrible person.
Its not so easy to just give her the boot, is it?
There are other factors to consider.
Not to mention that when you first meet someone, they're typically not themselves. It's not until later down the line that you find out what they're really capable of. Everyone wants to impress at first.
This is why I'll never do anything for a girl, that I'm not willing to keep up in the long run.
So many guys go tripping over themselves to impress a girl, but set themselves up for a fall later on. When the girl realises that their BF doesnt actually love to write them poetry, cook them dinner, rub their shoulders, and all of that bollocks, they tend to get upset.
The thing that I dont understand about wanting to get married, is that....
It's all so cliche to me.
Why does this 'ceremony' have to happen in a certain way? why do you have to have bridesmaids, groomsmen, and ring bearers?
Because everyone else says that thats how you have to do it? And they only do it that way, because the people before them did it like that? And so forth?
Why dont people choose to celebrate their relationship in their own way, rather than being so lame about it.
I guess it is just traditions like that in general that I think are lame.
If a whole generation decided that a certain tradition was lame, it would pretty much cease to exist.
Many stupid traditions only carry on, because people think that they should, because its a tradition.
Circular logic anyone?